The first step in getting anyone to want to kiss you is setting up a situation where physical intimacy is on the agenda. That means a date. When you ask someone on a date, you do not have to explicitly say ‘a date’. You can ask to hang out sometime, or go get something to eat sometime. If she tries to drag a whole bunch of her friends along, it may mean she is not keen or it may only mean she is shy. In any case, try your best to encourage her to see you alone, as you will want some privacy.
Good choices for a date depend a little on you. Are you a messy eater? If so, don’t pick a dinner date. You’re trying to make a good impression. On the subject, obviously your hygiene has to be at its top level. That includes taking measures you might not normally. You’re planning to kiss a girl, so you’ll want to bring some kind of mint or mouth freshening agent. Chewing gum is not advised – chewing away when you’re supposed to be talking and being charming will not help your chances.
How To Get A Girl To Kiss You – Location Is Important
As said before, privacy is important. If you can get the girl to come to your home when you know it is going to be empty (no parents, no siblings, no roommates) under a casual pretext – like studying, for example – all the better. It is better to not be misleading, however. If you want your kiss attempt to be successful, you must give the girl cues that indicate that you like her so that, if she agrees to see you, you can be reasonably sure you are in with a chance. Flirting is good and she will flirt back if she likes you.
How To Get A Girl To Kiss You – Signs She Is Ready
Read her expressions carefully. Does she keep eye contact with you? Does she smile a lot? These are good signs. If she seems more interested in the dinner or the movie, that might indicate her lack of interest. Either way, if you asked her out, it’s up to you to keep the conversation afloat. It’s also up to you to make the decisions about what to do and where to go next. If you don’t have any sort of plan, it looks like you’re not into her and are just passing the time.
Much as you will have to make some effort to keep conversation going, silence is not necessarily bad. If you are watching a movie on the couch and things go quiet, you could take the opportunity to lightly touch her hand or arm or to move closer. Whatever you decide to do, reading the situation is the key. As long as you are respectful, she will kiss you – even if she is too nervous or shy the first time you try.
Gentleness is better, but not at the expense of directness – being clear in your body language about what you want saves misunderstandings.
